Discussed WITH the Patient, Not Discussed TO

Discussed with the patient, not discussed to the patient — discuss OET writing follows one fixed preposition rule. Here's why the error happens and how to fix it every time.

By Dr Mariam's team 8 min read
Discussed WITH the Patient, Not Discussed TO

Discuss is one of the most frequent verbs in an OET letter — clinicians discuss diagnoses, discuss treatment options, discuss discharge plans, discuss test results — and it’s also one of the most reliably mishandled, because the preposition rule that governs it doesn’t match the verbs it sits next to in every other sentence. Writing “discussed the results to the patient” instead of “discussed the results with the patient” is a Language-criterion error that survives proofreading precisely because it sounds like it should be right.

In short

In OET writing, discuss is followed by “with” when you name the person you spoke to — never “to.” The fixed pattern is discuss + topic (no preposition) + with + person: “I discussed the discharge plan with the patient,” not “discussed the discharge plan to the patient.” Two separate errors show up around this verb. The first drops “with” and inserts “about” before the topic instead — “discussed about the diagnosis” — which is wrong because discuss already means “talk about,” so the topic follows it directly with no preposition at all. The second, more common error swaps “with” for “to” before the person — “discussed the results to the patient” — because sibling reporting verbs such as explain to, talk to, and speak to genuinely do take “to” before a person, and candidates over-apply that same pattern to discuss by analogy. Discuss is the exception: with before a person, nothing before the topic. This is a Language-criterion error under the OET writing marking scheme’s six official criteria. Source: oet.com.

Watch the full breakdown: Discussed WITH, Not Discussed TO works through the pattern using real OET-style case-note sentences.

Why does “discussed to” happen so often in OET writing?

The error isn’t random — it’s borrowed from other verbs that genuinely do take “to” before a person. Look at how close their patterns sit to discuss’s:

  • Explain: “I explained the results to the patient.” Correct — explain takes “to” before a person.
  • Talk: “I talked to the patient about her medication.” Correct — talk takes “to” before a person, and “about” before the topic.
  • Speak: “I spoke to the family about the prognosis.” Correct — the same “to” plus “about” pattern.
  • Discuss: “I discussed the medication with the patient.” The odd one out — “with,” never “to,” and no “about” before the topic at all.

Four verbs a candidate reaches for constantly in the same sentence position, and three of them take “to.” The fourth breaks the pattern, and under exam pressure, most candidates never notice the break — they write discuss the way they’d write explain, talk, or speak, because that’s the rule their hand has already learned from the other three.

The core rule: discussed with the patient, never discussed to

Discuss is a transitive verb that already means “talk about” — the topic is its direct object, so nothing sits between discuss and the topic. If you also want to name who you spoke to, “with” introduces that person, and it always comes after the topic, not before it.

SlotWhat goes therePreposition
discuss +the topic (direct object)none
+ with +the person you spoke to”with” only

That single row of the table predicts every correct sentence you’ll write with discuss in a clinical letter.

CorrectWhy
I discussed the diagnosis with Mrs Chen.No preposition before the topic; “with” before the person.
The care plan was discussed with the family at the meeting.Passive form follows the same pattern — “with” before the person.
We discussed her options at the follow-up appointment.No person named, so the sentence ends after the topic — no preposition needed at all.
The results were discussed with the consultant before discharge.”With” introduces a colleague, not just a patient — the rule doesn’t change by who the person is.

Worked clinical examples: the two errors, corrected

Case notes compress everything into shorthand, which is exactly where candidates reach for the wrong preposition once they expand a fragment into a full sentence.

Case-note fragmentCommon errorCorrected
discussed dx with ptThe diagnosis was discussed to the patient.The diagnosis was discussed with the patient.
discussed meds, pt agreeableI discussed about the medication changes with the patient.I discussed the medication changes with the patient.
discussed d/c plan, family presentThe discharge plan was discussed to the family.The discharge plan was discussed with the family.
discussed results, referred onI discussed the test results to Dr Patel before referring her on.I discussed the test results with Dr Patel before referring her on.

Every row in the “common error” column fails for one of the two reasons above: either “to” has replaced “with” before a person, or “about” has been wrongly inserted before the topic. Neither error changes what the sentence means — a reader still understands exactly what happened — which is precisely why both slip past a candidate’s own proofreading.

Does “discussed to” actually sound wrong, or just informal?

It sounds wrong, not just casual — and that distinction matters for how examiners read it. Plenty of register slips in OET letters are a matter of formality: a candidate writes “I told her” instead of the more clinical “she was advised,” and the sentence is grammatically fine, just pitched at the wrong level of professional distance. “Discussed to the patient” isn’t that kind of error. There’s no informal register, spoken or written, where a native speaker says “discuss to” — it isn’t a casual version of the correct phrase, it’s a different, incorrect preposition attached to a verb that never takes it. That’s what makes it a Language error rather than a Genre & Style one: the sentence isn’t too informal, it’s ungrammatical.

This is worth being precise about because the fix is different depending on which problem you have. A register slip is corrected by choosing a more clinical synonym or restructuring the sentence to sound more formal. A fixed-collocation error like “discussed to” has exactly one correct form — “discussed with” — and no amount of rephrasing around it fixes the underlying mistake if the wrong preposition is still there. Once you know discuss takes “with” and only “with” before a person, there’s nothing left to judge case by case; the rule applies identically whether you’re writing to a GP, a specialist, a patient, or a patient’s family.

What criterion does this fall under, and why does it matter?

This is a Language-criterion error under the OET writing marking scheme, which sets out six official criteria: Purpose, Content, Conciseness & Clarity, Genre & Style, Organisation & Layout, and Language. Language scores grammatical range and control, and a fixed collocation used against its own rule — discuss paired with “to” instead of “with” — is graded as a control error even though the sentence’s meaning is never genuinely in doubt.

Because discuss is one of the highest-frequency verbs in referral, discharge, and progress letters, this isn’t a one-off risk. A candidate who has the preposition wrong tends to write “discussed… to” or “discussed about” more than once in the same letter, and examiners marking Language read for exactly that kind of repeated pattern rather than an isolated slip. Getting a single high-frequency collocation right protects marks across the whole script, not just in one sentence.

How do I catch this in my own writing before I submit?

Search your draft for every instance of “discussed.” Look at the word immediately after it:

  • If it’s “to” and a person follows, change it to “with.”
  • If it’s “about” and the topic follows, delete “about” — the topic should sit directly after discuss with nothing in between.
  • If it’s already “with” followed by a person, or the topic sits directly after discuss with no person named, it’s correct as written.

This takes under a minute per letter and resolves both errors in one pass, without needing to name the grammar behind either one.

Discuss isn’t the only clinical verb with a fixed, non-obvious preposition. Our broader guide to prepositions after clinical verbs covers referral (to a person, for a service), medication (on a drug), and admission (to/from) collocations that follow the same “learn the whole phrase, not the verb alone” logic as discuss. If diagnosis-related prepositions are tripping you up too, Diagnosed WITH vs Diagnosed AS vs Presenting WITH works through three more fixed patterns in the same family of errors. For the wider set of grammar issues that most often cost Language marks, see our OET writing grammar guide, and for the criterion this all falls under, our Language criterion breakdown explains exactly how grammatical control is weighted at each band. For a fast first check on a specific letter, our free OET Grammar Checker will flag many discuss/with/to mismatches automatically.

Why this is worth fixing as a habit

Discuss shows up in nearly every letter type OET Writing tests — referral, discharge, transfer, and advice letters all involve a clinician discussing something with a patient, family member, or colleague — so getting the collocation wrong isn’t a rare risk, it’s a repeated one across a single script. Fixing it is also one of the cheapest wins available under Language: it’s a fixed rule with no exceptions to memorise beyond “with before a person, nothing before the topic,” and once it’s corrected, it stays corrected in every letter you write afterward. Our OET correction packages check fixed-collocation errors like this across a full letter alongside the other five criteria, so a repeated discuss-with-to slip gets caught and corrected before it costs you a band.

Frequently asked questions

Common questions on this topic — full answers below.

Why is 'discussed to the patient' wrong in OET writing?
Discuss only ever takes 'with' before the person you spoke to — 'discussed the results with the patient' — never 'to.' The confusion comes from sibling reporting verbs like explain, talk, and speak, which correctly take 'to' before a person ('explained the diagnosis to the patient'). Discuss doesn't follow that pattern, and using 'to' after it is a fixed-rule preposition error under the Language criterion.
What is the correct pattern for discuss in a clinical letter?
The pattern is discuss + topic, with no preposition before the topic, followed by 'with' and the person if you name one: 'I discussed the treatment options with Mr Aziz.' If you don't need to name who you spoke to, the sentence can end after the topic: 'The treatment options were discussed at the follow-up appointment.'
Is 'discussed about' also wrong, or just 'discussed to'?
Both are errors, but they're different mistakes. 'Discussed about the diagnosis' wrongly adds a preposition before the topic — discuss already carries the meaning of 'talk about,' so the topic follows it directly, with no preposition at all. 'Discussed to the patient' wrongly swaps the correct preposition ('with') for the wrong one ('to') before the person. Both come from treating discuss like a verb it isn't, and both are avoidable once you know discuss takes no preposition before its topic and only 'with' before a person.
Does this preposition error actually cost marks in OET Writing?
Yes. It's scored under the Language criterion, one of the six official OET writing criteria, which assesses grammatical range and control. Discuss appears constantly in referral, discharge, and progress letters — any time a clinician talks something through with a patient, family member, or colleague — so a candidate who has the preposition wrong tends to repeat the same error several times across one script, which reads as a control gap rather than a single slip.
How can I check my own letter for this error before submitting?
Find every instance of 'discussed' in your draft. If the next word is 'to,' change it to 'with' when a person follows, or delete the preposition entirely when a topic follows directly. If the next word is 'about,' delete 'about' — the topic should sit right after discuss with nothing in between. This takes under a minute and catches the two most common discuss errors in one pass.

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